Nudges from the Universe! Celebrating 30 years of Helping People Help Themselves  The Law of  Attraction Attracting Love ~~~~~~~~ Relationships Are Like A Pair of Shoes A relationship, like a pair of shoes, is a non-identical, complimentary set. A running shoe is paired with another running shoe; athletes are attracted to others who value fitness. A steel-toed work boot matches a similar mate; those who work long and hard for their money generally attract partners who share the expectation that life requires hard work. An expensive high heel is not worn with a run down flip-flop and is often found to keep company with a polished pair of wing tips. A woman in New York meets a new man. She observes that they might have a future together because their ”pathologies match.” She thinks he’s a little crazy. She’s certain that she herself is a little nuts. Her conclusion is that they might understand each other as a result. She is only half kidding. There is a magnetic attraction between them because there is a similarity in their energetic vibrations. Neither of them feel at peace with themselves yet are surprised that the relationship is filled with conflict. They share matching viewpoints of being out of step with the norm, but that commonality doesn’t mean they will be happy. Someone in the vibration of abusing will attract someone in the vibration of being vulnerable to abuse. A perfect pair: victim and victimizer. They attract each other. Even while the victim desperately dreams of rescue and “happily ever after”, she continues to think of herself and thus vibrates as a victim needing rescue. This energetic signal attracts more victimization, not the knight she visualizes every night. Both the victim and victimizer are experiencing internal dragon wars, opposing beliefs, which create the self-sabotage and compulsive behavior we wish we could quit. The energetic polarity reversal manifests in opposites attracting each other. While their energy is stuck in conflict, it is difficult to maintain healthy behavior. They consistently create circumstances that they don’t consciously prefer. Note: This is the same kind of energy conflict that sabotoges your New Year's resolutions, your unsuccessful attempts to make changes in your life and the repetition of unfavorable emotional, physical and financial patterns. It's not that you don't want something better or lack the will to go get it. The you that wants something new is at war with opposing forces, dragons,  that are already ruling the roost. The Dragon Slayer Someone in the habit of not getting what they want will attract a dancing partner who does not want them. Someone in the habit of blaming others will attract others to blame. The Law of Attraction is always at work. In relationships, as in life, we always attract a perfect match to our vibration, our beliefs and our expectations. Expectations often go unnoticed and have nothing to do with what we want. If you are not getting what you want in your relationships, your finances and your life style, then there is a mismatch between your vibration and wishes. Like milk and cookies, partners compliment each other’s dominant belief systems and expectations. If you want a champagne life, but think of yourself as a vanilla wafer, drinking that bubbly will be a rare treat, not a lifestyle. Being willing to recognize that your results and patterns in life are reflections of what you are being, who and what you think you are and the identity you most closely associate with is the first step to shifting your vibration and your experience. If you want to know what you are vibrating, take a non-judgmental look at your life and relationships. Whether or not you have what you have been wanting, the truth is that your vibration was a perfect match to what you’ve got. Our vibration is like a complicated stew of multi-dimensions: past, present and future hopes, dreams, successes, worries and fears. There are countless components that make up our vibration. Knowing what you want and focusing on it is beneficial, but it doesn’t replace our personal cumulative vibrational stew, it adds to it. Changing our mind does not eliminate the beliefs we were holding before we decided we wanted something different; it just sends those beliefs and identities underground. Like Cinderella, the abandoned shoe comes back to find us. _________________ Nudges from the Universe! Kristin Kopp Quantum Training Life Coaching http://www.nudgez.com +1 414-817-9811 Get 7 Self Help and Quantum Mind Power Tips You can Use Right Now! http://www.nudgez.com ~~~~~~~~~ The Law of Love Attraction I really do love hearing from you. This note came in last night. Kristin Hello, you invited us to ask questions. Thank you. My problem is there are not many people in my life that I spend time with and my life reflects being alone a lot. My husband died and I started to feel like I did not belong anywhere. If life is a mirror my reflection is lonely. Please help. I am trying to be more outgoing and to attract a new mate. Dee Dear Dee, We are so sorry for your loss. Many of us find ourselves alone in a crowd. It’s easy to slip into isolation and disconnection. The vibration of loneliness can trigger the increasing pain of separation or the courage to expand into new love and life. Good for you for putting your attention and energy out into the world! Here are some simple steps you could take to attract a mate. Love yourself. Be gentle and kind toward your idea of you. Love yourself. Nurture your body with quality food, water, movement and rest. Love yourself. Nurture your mind with thankful thoughts of your gifts, given and received. Love yourself. Nurture your spirit with the beauty of sunsets and nature. Love yourself. Smile at strangers, encourage children, open doors. Love yourself. Reach out. Call friends. Offer your friendship. Love yourself. Take yourself to the places and activities that you enjoy. Love yourself. Take yourself to new places and activities that you might enjoy. Say YES to life. The Law of Love Attraction If you want to attract love then love yourself. No need to wait for another to do it for you, in fact, the quality of the love you attract when you love yourself first is cleaner, sweeter and more enriching. Love yourself. Call me if you are ready for some help. Imagine the Possibilities! Kristin +1414-817-9811 P.S. In my book, The Dragon Slayer, you will discover ways to eliminate the dragons of loneliness and not belonging that create walls between you and others.   I want to share with you 7 Self Help Tips You Can Use Right Now!                             Let's get to know eachother! Kristin Your vision is real. Your thoughts have wings. Imagine the Possibilities! Kristin Kopp   Getting Nudged! We have readers from over 70 countries around the world! 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